“Saying no can be the kindest thing to do, if it is rooted in a yes inside.”
The journey towards our potential is about liberating ourselves from the conditionings that keep us from manifesting it. The challenge is that these conditions reside in our unconsciousness. Simply put, we forgot about them. But it is not because we forgot about them that these conditions & beliefs aren’t subject to our inherent capacity to create.
The mirror of life shows us our unconscious beliefs. If something triggers us and brings along resistance, than it is not the other being the cause of this. We are the cause & luckily so ! What life would it be if others would be responsible for our inner feelings ?
Our experiences through life, brings us in touch with our unconscious beliefs. These beliefs are holding us from dancing more freely on the dance floor of life. Some of these ways are kind and some are abrupt and painful. When we ignore, life slowly bring us to a point were we just had enough and cannot take it anymore. Kindness helps us to dance between these extremes. All of it is part of liberating our heart so we get to sing our own and unique song .
“ Kindness can be practiced in many ways. I have my deeper learnings by offering kindness to the ones I resist the most. They are the ones that show me what I need to let go of. Applying the mirror of life transforms this into; This person shows me what part of me I’ve not seen yet & still resist to.”
We need to be kind to ourselves, by taking care of ourselves. As simple as it sounds, it takes years to know what that truly means. Kindness has nothing to do with pleasing. Part of liberation is being able to say no in a kind way. Saying no becomes easy when it is grounded in a yes from within. Saying no can be uncomfortable at first, as it triggers our conditioned concept of love.
Be courageous, be willing to accept, even if… and be kind to yourself. Each time we accept and let go, we free up the energy that was stuck inside. As a bonus, the energy we used to hold on becomes available as well. Each time we merge more fully with all of life and honor our nature.
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